Advantages of being an introvert - Benefits that make an introvert's life worth living
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There are many publications and articles which address topics like "How to be an extrovert" or "How to go from being an introvert to an extrovert" Why is there such a need to change the personality and behavior of an introvert? After all, an introvert's life is full of pleasure, happiness, enjoyment and satisfaction like no other. Find it hard to believe? Let's look at the advantages of being an introvert.
1) Introverts don't need company to enjoy
Unlike extroverts, introverts don't really require company or to be in a social setting amongst friends and colleagues to enjoy themselves. This advantage of being an introvert is more than what meets the eye. Let us clarify that 'not needing company' should not be equated to leading a life of a loner. Introverts generally have a few close friends with whom they may have a very intimate relationship. However they don't necessarily need to be in the company of dozens of friends to have a good time. Introverts can find the most intricate of things to keep themselves busy and happy even in solitary environments.
2) Introverts don't need to spend big to entertain themselves
Going out for parties, going out for dinners, going to the pub, etc are some of the typical entertainment options for an extrovert. As one would imagine, all this costs a lot of money. On the other hand, introverts have the advantage of being easily entertained without having to spend heaps of money. Whether it is time spent playing a musical instrument, surfing the internet, watching TV or playing video games, entertainment options for introverts are much more affordable than those of an extrovert.
3) An introvert's life has less complication
As they have less people around them, introverts are less likely to have social and moral complications in life as compared to an extrovert. Introverts are generally concerned only with their own lives and are happy to lead a solitary yet fulfilling existence. As introverts are also considered introspective, they generally think twice before engaging themselves in a new activity or with a new group of people. All this leads to a life that has less complication in which the penultimate goal is self fulfillment rather than living a life for the happiness of others.
4) Introverts can enjoy all the pleasures of life
Let's take a classic situation to elaborate this advantage of being an introvert. Below are typical answers that an introvert and an extrovert might give when asked the question "How was your weekend? What did you do?"
Extrovert: "Oh the weekend was great. We had a big Friday night and I ended up nursing a hangover on Saturday. I went out for dinner with some friends on Saturday night and came back late. Sunday went by quick as I had to clear up some mess and prepare for the week ahead"
Introvert: "The weekend was usual. A close friend and I spent Friday evening sipping on some good red wine and watching a classic movie. I drove to a nearby creek on Saturday and sent the afternoon reading a book under the sunny sky. The rest of Saturday and Sunday were spent playing the guitar, surfing my favorite websites and watching episodes of one of my favorite TV shows. Oh and I also spent some time working on my latest painting!"
As you can see, an introvert's weekend was full of some of the simple pleasures of life that may be missed out otherwise.
5) Introverts can enjoy creativeness
Reading, writing, drawing, painting, sculpting, music, designing, crafting, etc are some of the creative activities that are commonly done by introverts. As one would imagine, all these activities are highly creative and require a lot of insight and thought to be put in. These activities are generally done in solitude and are enjoyed best at a personal level. This indulgence in creativeness is a strong pillar of an introvert's life and is an aspect that an extrovert may not necessarily be exposed to.
6) Introverts can work effectively independently
Ask any manager and they will tell you that introverts can work effectively when left alone. They really don't need the constant moral support or chitter chatter of colleagues to get a job done. This is the exact reason why introverts can be great artists, sculptors, scientists, musicians, software developers, programmers, number crunchers, writers and much more. This advantage of being an introvert gives immense professional satisfaction and the ability to enjoy one's own job environment.
7) Introverts do what they want to do
Because of the fact that introverts have less complicating elements in their lives, their actions are solely governed by their own satisfaction and happiness. An introvert does not really have many people around them to worry about things like "How will this affect my relationship with Linda?" or "Will Mark feel bad that I did this without him?" An extrovert on the other hand may need to worry about the social repercussions of his/her actions before doing something. That's because they are under the constant and watchful eyes of the many friends they have. This advantage of being an introvert is loud and clear – "Introverts live life their own way"
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Love this! Lots and I mean lots of these things describe me to a T. And guess what, it's ok to be an introvert. Great hub!
I think it's good to know how to enjoy being alone, but we need human interaction to feel valued and appreciated at times. I think it's good to have a healthy interest in both lifestyles but I enjoyed reading this hub.
This hub is great - I am now proud to admit that I am an introvert.
Well developed piece. Enjoyed it very much...as an introvert. Voted interesting and voted up.
As a fellow introvert, loved your piece and related to all of it. My middle son is very much an introvert although he can have fun in a group. But he can always keep himself busy and is perfectly happy by himself. Youngest son can handle it on his own but is much happier with friends. He is definitely more of an introvert. Oldest son I would say strays somewhere in the middle. What an interesting topic to write about. Enjoyed very much and voted up!
Awesome topic. As another fellow introvert, I also really enjoyed this hub and can relate to many of these aspects of being an introvert. There is definitely nothing wrong with being an introvert, and its qualities should be embraced, not pushed away.
Great topic and great Hub. Far too often I think, people have equated introversion with all but crippling shyness and insecurity. But seldom is that the reality. I love the case you have made for the benefits, strengths, even pleasures of being an introvert.
There are many careers full of introverts. College professors for example; I know many of them and I am one of them. Our basic nature is introversion - good for reading, research, preparing lectures, etc. And then we develop, some better than others, extrovert characteristics and skills in order to speak publicly and manage a class-room full of students.
I find it interesting and amusing that whenever this topic comes up in class, all my students immediately label me an extrovert! (Then we talk about what the term really means, of course.) They have no idea how happy I am when class is over to go sit quietly in my office surrounded by paintings, books, maps....and Quiet! And I am not at all lonely or bored, just very content with my own thoughts. :)
Princesswithapen,
Interesting article. I can think of several friends, family members and colleagues who could easily qualify as an introvert.
Where I stand myself, I'm not sure yet. :)
















techygran Level 4 Commenter 6 months ago
Very good points around the strong points of being introverted! Our family is pretty introverted, and along a continuum of being totally happy in being alone 60% of the time, to being a little more social. Many of the introvert activities you mention sound pretty sedentary (which is me) but my husband is a long-distance runner and that is another perfectly-suited introvert's activity. Thanks for educating those out there who think introversion is some sort of mood disorder!